This type of massage was first used in Indian and Chinese cultures. Translation from Old Indian – Sanskrit – “Lingam” means male sex organ, the literal translation of the word sounds like “rod of light”. In Tantra, Lingam occupies a special niche and is a source of pure energy and supreme pleasure.
Lingam massage is a penis massage that includes a complex of massage movements that help to improve and strengthen sexual activity, strengthen the reproductive system and awaken sexual energy. In addition, the massage complex includes not only penis massage but also testicles, the mysterious G spot, and male perineum.
Some use lingam massage for safe sex, others – to change the intimate part of life, but the main purpose of such massage is to teach a person to completely relax, relieve stress and give him a new experience. Orgasm is not an endpoint, but it can be a great bonus.
Lingam massage: the technique of performance
In order to master the skills of performing Lingam massage yourself, you will need 20-30 minutes for the theoretical part and a man who would trust you during practical exercises.
The Lingam massage takes place in 2 stages:
Stage 1 – Preparatory. Ask your partner to take a bath or shower to relax well. The man’s breath must be deep and moderate. You should do the same because your posture during the massage will be passed on to your partner.
Stage 2 – Main. Suggest the man to lie on his back, put pillows under his head. Sit between your legs. Before starting the massage, wet your hands with special oil or water-based grease. The massage begins with a light stroke of Lingam, proceeding to massage the testicles, pubis, and perineum.
The basic principle in such massage is slow, gentle and sensual movements. Then go to the Lingam torso massage, alternating with a slow and fast pace, compression and relaxation. Climbing the trunk, proceed to massage the head of the penis. Slight strokes back to the perineum.
Example of a Lingam massage:
To give you an idea of how a lingam massage works, and to get you started, a short description now follows:
- The lingam massage starts with good preparation. Provide a comfortable room with a pleasant temperature and atmospheric lighting. Keep practical aids such as a good massage oil or a good lubricant (less fat) within reach.
- The session starts with a body massage to relax physically and mentally. The type of massage differs from person to person; the one likes a somewhat harder massage to warm and release the muscles, the other prefers soft touches to get into the right state of mind. It is important to come and stay in the “here and now”. Proper, deep breathing is also important here.
- Apply a generous amount of massage oil. First, massage the inside of the thighs with massage oil. Massage with light strokes and increase the pressure. Ask what he likes best and adjust your massage accordingly. Then massage the testicles gently and keep a close eye on the man’s reaction. The sensitivity varies a lot from man to man.
- After the balls, it is the lingam, the penis’s turn. Massage the shaft and apply sufficient variation to the massage. For example, change the tempo regularly, combine the up and down movement with small turns to the left or right, use two hands, then one. Sometimes use the left hand, then the right hand again. Continue to vary in rhythm, pressure, speed, and methods.
- Stay alert and slow down or stop what you are doing when the man threatens to come. This is usually easy to predict by paying attention to breathing, moaning and tensing muscles. You can also ask the man to indicate when he is going to cum.
When the man threatens to come, you can stop or slow down, but you can also apply the closing massage technique, which is at point 8, in between. It is not a problem if the penis is half slackened by stopping the massage, that is the intention. By being brought to near-cum again and again, the man can experience a recurring orgasm.
- There are various massage techniques that you can use to bring the man to the edge of cum again and again and it is impossible to cover them all in this piece.
- Do not forget the rest of the body and massage the abdomen, arms, and legs with some regularity.
- Final massage caresses with tantric penis massageFinish the massage. This is usually done by having the man cum, although this is not necessarily necessary. In any case, take the time, even after ejaculation. A lingam massage is an intense experience and it is good to take the time to recover.
A good concluding massage technique is the following: Move your fingertips lightly from crown to fingers, then make the same light caressing movements from crown to toes. Finish with your hands on his feet and keep your hands there for a few minutes.
Use different lingam massage techniques.
An example of a massage technique:
Alternately make 10 downward strokes with your left and right hand, towards the base of the penis. Then make 10 upward strokes. From the base to the top of the penis.
Done? Then you do the same, now not 10 but 9 times, then 8 times. Until finally 1 time.
Another example of a lingam massage technique:
This technique is also called the lemon technique. First, carefully pull the foreskin back with the left hand. Then massage the glans with the other hand.
To do this, squeeze and twist gently and make movements as if you were squeezing a lemon or orange.
Vary from pressure. Start with gentle pressure and increase the pressure slowly. Note that too much pressure can be unpleasant.
For more variation, you can gently slide your left hand back and forth over the shaft of the penis.
More than a ‘handjob’
A lingam massage is different from a normal ‘handjob’. There is also a bit more to it. It is a typical example of tantric sex where attention, love and sexual pleasure go hand in hand and lead to a better sex life for him and her. It is fun and more than worth it to delve deeper into it.
