You have probably heard of the female G-spot and read some articles to learn how to stimulate you with your partner. Although small, this female erogenous area, the clitoris, can be worked through the anterior wall of the vagina.
But did you know that there is also a male G-spot?
Yes!
And if your mate is open to new possibilities and pleasures, you can both benefit from this discovery. However, many men still have sexist thinking and strictly linked to phallic pleasure.
A couple in tune and without prejudice knows that sex offers much more than the pleasure of penetration. And women know well that it is not always the final act that gives pleasure in sex.
What is the male G-spot?
Contrary to what one might imagine, the male G-spot is not on the penis!
It is an erogenous zone located in the rectum wall – that is, the prostate. In short, the small gland is just below the bladder, around the urethra. Its function is to produce a colorless fluid that, added to the sperm, forms the semen expelled during ejaculation.
Thus, those who want to locate it need to insert the finger into the anus, the anterior wall (towards the penis) to a depth equivalent to 2 or 3 cm. You will find an elevation in the size of a walnut, which is the prostate gland.
Like the clitoris, the prostate, the entire genital, perineal, and some internal parts of the rectum and urethra are rich in nerve endings. This hypersensitivity provides high pleasure when stimulated – it is more intense than traditional orgasm.
Best of all, you don’t need penile stimulation for that. In addition, prostate stimulation puts pressure on the urethra to the point of holding back ejaculation. But this requires more warm-up time.
Understanding partner:
For this pleasure to happen, it is important that your partner is open.
After all, any anal stimulation a closed-headed man already associates with homosexuality – when, in fact, the only characteristic that marks homosexuality is being attracted to a same-sex person.
The problem is that this “fear” of penetration disrupts pleasure and even health.
This prejudice can not only prevent much better experiences in sex but also the diagnosis of other conditions, such as hemorrhoids and the appearance of tumors; since the man does not take the touch exam.
Why is male G-spot so pleasurable?
In addition to nerve endings, being open to anal stimulation demonstrates a detachment from prejudice. This makes all sex easier and more enjoyable.
Yet there is still something that sounds silly, but it says a lot about male pleasure: awareness about one’s own body.
Man is led to believe that pleasure comes only from penetration, which often leads him not to value foreplay.
This is because he believes that pleasure is solely and exclusively linked to the penis.
Let the female example: when a woman becomes aware of his body and the points that give pleasure, especially the genitals, can have much better sex.
Better: you can have amazing orgasms without the need for a partner.
How to stimulate male G-spot?
It’s not enough to know that there is a male G-spot if you can’t take advantage of it, isn’t it?
Find out how to properly stimulate your partner’s prostate:
Preparation:
Before manipulating the male G-spot, you need to check that your nails are short so as not to hurt the area.
Another important detail: do not make very sudden maneuvers, as they can also hurt the rectum wall. They need to be firm and, after a while intense, but never violent or abrupt.
Finally, it is best that your partner has evacuated and sanitized before.
Fingers:
Your hands should also be in accordance with your partner’s body position.
If your stomach is up, your fingerprint should be up, and vice versa. Just light pressure will start to stimulate.
There are specialists who, for hygiene, recommend the use of gloves during handling.
Lubrication:
To prevent friction between the fingers and the anal region (in addition to bruising), a lubricant is indispensable. Although saliva may seem like an easy and practical solution, it is not enough.
Ideally, use a water-based lubricant.
If you are wearing gloves or another latex artifact, it is best not to use vegetable or mineral oils and creams (petroleum jelly, moisturizer, butter, shaving cream) because they heat the area and break the material.
Before you start stimulating the male G-spot, ask your partner to put a lot of lubricant (really!) Around and inside the anus.
If you want, you can pass the product with a massage, so that both relax. Also pass on the massager, toy or fingers.
Prostate massager:
There are also toys suitable for the area. Anal plugs and dildos can be used for manipulation.
There is no guarantee that your partner will reach orgasm.
Each individual reacts in a different way.
If you prefer a vibrator, the ideal is high intensity. When using it, press it firmly toward the anus to the root of the penis. Your partner will feel pleasant pressure before penetration.
All are of soft, resistant materials and pose no risk to anal health. Do not use anything that is not specifically made for erotic use.
Manipulation:
Another way to relax the partner is to massage. Thus, he has a preview of prostate stimulation.
Once both are calmer, begin pacing by slowly inserting the finger/massager/toy. In the first few seconds, wait for your partner to get used to this introduction.
Ideally, your partner should move against your finger instead of pushing you toward the prostate gland.
Leaving the command with who gets the penetration is ideal for confidence and relaxation, as he will have control of the moment.
During the massage, contract your fingers as you or your partner do during your masturbation. Play with the male G-spot. There needs to be deeper pressure – you need to even massage the prostate to function. Don’t just fret or caress.
Gently manipulating other regions (penis, sac, nipples, and buttocks) can give your partner even more pleasure. The whole body can be eroticized, depending on the moment.
Another detail is about speed. It must match what the partner wants. So no silence: you should communicate during male G-spot stimulation.
