I’m new to Victoria BC and offer massages to people. I was searching around the net and realised that there isn’t many place for people in Victoria to find sensual massage? You hear so many horror stories about Backpage & Craigslist that it made me wonder where do people look if they want a relaxed but honest and sometimes erotic massage. I had a look around and the best places to find people who are genuine and reliable are from escort and massage forums… The people in the forums review the females that may advertise on Backpage & Craigslist and tell their experience about what they were like. I’m not sure how many massage therapist would be happy to hear they are being talked about in these forums, but I guess I would want to read reviews and check out what I’m getting myself into if I ever wanted to try out a service like this. 

Other than that there seems to be Thai or general massage places and parlors that offer a massage… but some also seem to offer extras… the way I have read about it seems a bit clinical and isn’t it on a table? Haha I do massage on a bed only. I like to move about sorry! 

You can also check out the local papers and see if there are any adverts that get your sensual massage senses going. If someone is describing their appearance, and describing an alternative massage from the norm then maybe you can take a chance and give them ago.  

What about you? Do you know where are good places to search and look to find a nice sensual massage in Victoria? Let me know if you do. 

Stay bliss and good luck searching. 

What happens if you get a bit too happy in a massage? I suggest not to worry about it too much. Massage therapist are normally used to it occasionally appearing in endings. When muscles are stimulated, relaxed, and are receiving pleasurable sensation, then a person can become excited/happy in the ending or even during the middle of the session. It is quite common, so don’t try to avoid it and just try to enjoy and relax with the massage. The therapist will respect your boundaries the same way they will expect you to respect hers. Just remember there is nothing wrong with feeling nurtured and euphoric in your body. Maybe pamper yourself to getting a happy massage that is sensual and pleasurable so that you embrace your happy feelings. 

I am based in Victoria BC if you want to find a therapist that won’t be too shy about your happy experience and ending. 

Are you looking for a sensual massage in Victoria B.C, that can assist in healing your mental and physical scars? Or maybe you are just curious about tantric massages such as yoni, lingam, or sensual massage. There is lots of information about sexual healing, sexological bodywork, sacred intimacy, or erotic energy work on the internet, but how does that translate into you finding the right practitioner for you? 

Tantric healer if for males and females and is hands on. It involves sexual energy and can quickly get to the root of deep-seated issues that often take years to resolve if using methods such as counselling. Effects can sometimes be dramatic, and positive in a persons life, other times it can take a few sessions.

This kind of hands-on, experiential work, often involving sexual energy and/or intimate touch, can quickly get to the root of deep-seated issues that often take years to resolve with other methods such as counseling or medical treatment. Tantric healing can have a dramatic, positive effect in a person’s life when undertaken by a well-trained, gifted practitioner.

So how do you find the right Tantric healer for you? 

• The best place to start is with yourself. What are you truly looking to heal, connect, rediscover, ect? I will post a list of questions to ask yourself to get a deeper understanding of what you are searching for in my next blog. 
• The next step is to ask yourself what you need to and look for in a person for them to create a safe environment for you to heal, learn, and grow. Where are they located, what kind of place do they practice in, do you feel a connection with them when you speak to them? Are you able to discuss your boundaries and vulnerabilities with them? 
• It is also good to know and understand all the terms surrounding sensual massages and tantric healing. I will discuss terms and meanings in a future blog. 
• Word of mouth… You may or may not be close enough to your friends to get a personal recommendation for a sensual experience, but there are a lot of professionals around that now embrace and see the benefits of tantric massage and other bodywork. You can ask for a referral from a counselor, psychologist, or an open-minded doctor. 
• Search engines – You can sometimes get lucky and find a good therapist by using Backpage and Craigslist… but it is often hit and miss. I often advertise on these sites and hear horror stories of who they have met in the past. A good idea is to search the following terms followed by the city you are in. Tantric healing, Tantric massage, Lingam massage, Yoni massage 

These are a few things that will help you on your way. Good luck and say hi if you are in Victoria B.C maybe we will have a healing tantric massage sometime. 

How to give a sensual couples massage is a common question. Couples can see someone like myself and experience hands on guidance while I am in Victoria B.C but that is not helpful for people that can’t find a sensual massage guide. However, I say that couples should definitely act on their curiosity and try some techniques to really help them connect and bond with one another. 

Touching

The best way to give a sensual massage is to keep touches gentle and light. The skin is covered in sensitive nerve endings that respond to light touch. Partners can really start to feel aroused and enjoy the massage from light touches. You can direct your touches to the clitoris, thighs, buttocks, and breasts when massaging a female. The same is the same for men except a partner will concentrate on the penile erogenous zones instead of the clitoris. 

Lingam

Lingam massage is the tantric version of sensual massage that is given to males. Lingam is the Sanskirt work for male sex organ. The lingam massage is to help relax the man by massaging the prostate, the penis, and the testicles. The intention is not to give the male an orgasm but that can be a pleasant side effect. 

The guy can lay on his back with a pillow under his head and under his hips. His legs can be spread and slightly bent. The guy is encouraged to do deep breathing while the partner gently rubs the entire body, from the chest and arms to the legs and thigh. It is important to remind the guy to keep breathing deeply and to be relaxed while his sexual organs are rubbed. The speed and pressure can be changed while rubbing the oil all over the entire pelvic area. 

Yoni

Yoni is the tantric version of sensual massage that is given to females. Yoni is the Sanskirt word for vagina. The Yoni massage is meant to instill respect and love. A Yoni massage can help women relax and serve as an alternative safe sex technique. The aim of the Yoni sensual massage is to help the female relax and give pleasure. 

The female can lie on her back with pillows behind her head. She should be at an angle where she is able to watch her partner massage her genitals. another pillow is placed under her hips. It is important that both the female and the partner practice deep breathing throughout the massage. The partner should then gently rub the females whole body, and then pour a small amount of oil on the vaginal area and gently rub all around the inside area of the vagina. 

It is best if partner don’t talk to much during the massage so that they can focus on the massage and sensations. 

Don’t have a partner or want a professional to help you with the sensual couples massage? Come see me in Victoria B.C to experience these techniques. 

It seems to some people’s surprise that yes older women still want to enjoy sex and sensual experiences. I have had a few older women come to me for a sensual massage. We don’t stop feeling just because another birthday has passed by. 

“Portuguese decision to cut 50-year-old woman’s compensation over botched gynaecological surgery was ‘prejudiced’, say Lisbon judges.”

“Judges in Portugal were guilty of sexual discrimination in a medical compensation case when they decided that the importance of sex diminished with the age of a woman, Europe’s human rights court has ruled.”

I’m glad the case was resolved and hopefully more women in general do not have to justify wanting sensual experience regardless of their age.

All ages, genders, and sexualities are welcome to come for a sensual massage. I don’t need a judge to let me know what is important to women.  

Let’s meet and talk about your sexuality if you are based in Victoria B.C