According to Wikipedia, archaeological evidence of massage has been found in many ancient civilizations including China, India, Japan, Korea, Egypt, Rome, Greece,Mesopotamia and the history dates back to 25 BC. Massage is basically the rubbing and kneading of muscles and joints of the body with the hands, especially to relieve tension or pain and can come in many forms and types. One of the types of massages is the erotic lesbian massage. Now to better understand this term, it is highly important to know more about homosexuality, lesbians, lesbianism and how they are related to massages.

Homosexuality can be defined as the romantic or sexual attraction between people of the same gender. Under this stems out the concept of lesbianism. Lesbianism is the romantic or sexual attraction or desire between females while lesbians are women involved in this kind of relationship. For several decades if not centuries, this sort of sexual orientation (homosexuality/lesbianism) was not accepted and in many jurisdictions and societies, laws were even made to persecute individuals who expressed this form of sexuality. It was not until the late 1990s in many societies that homosexuality as a sexual orientation was accepted and the advent of the LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender) community further made the sexual revolution successful.

Taking a brief dive into the history and explanation of homosexuality and lesbianism is important in order to know the build up to what we know as erotic lesbian massage. An erotic lesbian massage can simply be said to be a massage involving lesbians but it is broader than this. An erotic lesbian massage can be said to be any form of massage revolving round the orientation of lesbianism, in which the masseuse and clients are women and it is done for the sole purpose of sexual arousal and orgasm.

An erotic lesbian massage is usually carried out while naked and supports clitoral stimulation and orgasm. While getting involved with or seeking a perfect erotic massage, there are certain important things to take note of. First and foremost, the masseuse is important. Finding the right masseuse can be key to enjoying this kind of massage. Before booking or requesting the services of a masseuse, it is necessary to know her stance, sexual orientation and whether or not she is comfortable with giving an erotic lesbian massage. This way, embarrassments and mix ups are avoided and self expression is easier.

The second part of it is letting go of all insecurities. While many women might not admit this, body insecurities is a problem many battle with or face. Many women nowadays worry about being too fat, or too thin or their stature or body hair. This can take the fun and pleasure out of it and to make the most out of an erotic lesbian massage, it is important to let go of all these insecurities and relax. Embrace your body in order to enjoy the erotic lesbian massage.

Another important thing to take note of is communication. Time and time again, I have always laid huge emphases on communication and how important it is in not only massage or sexual activities but in whatever we do. Communication is important in every stage of the erotic lesbian massage. Before the massage begins, it is important to let the masseuse know your nervousness if there is any, questions, concerns and even medical history. During the massage, communication is very important. Although the masseuse will probably be professional and know what she is doing, it is normal to let her know little details here and there to make the experience more memorable and at the end let her know how the experience felt like, ways she can improve and a little appreciation might not even do any harm. All these are very important in not only improving the experience but also leaving both parties satisfied.

In the same vein, lubrication is important. In many types of massages, the types and forms of oil or lubrication plays a major role in the process. In the erotic lesbian massage, lubrication is highly important. Choosing the right oil should depend on several factors such as skin type, preference, consider allergies, scents and several others.

In conclusion, the erotic lesbian massage is popular to many for diverse reasons. While many see it as a way to achieve the perfect orgasm, many see it as a way to release sexual tension and exploit their sexuality better. The massage process involves the masseuse stimulating her client in any way possible. Clitoral, vaginal, and even body and nipple stimulation are all familiar to the erotic lesbian massage process. She uses her fingers, hand and other parts of her body (some even use toys) to stimulate in other to achieve orgasm and sexual satisfaction.

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When we discuss massages, there are of course a lot of options and types of massages to talk about. One of these types is the Yoni massage. Breaking it down, yoni means Sanskrit (classical Indian language) for the vulva and means ‘sacred portal.’ The focus of the yoni or yonic massage is the vagina and clitoris as it contains about 8,000 nerve endings. The yoni massage is usually done by a female or a masseuse and most times, the method is for the masseuse to rub her oily body all over her client in order to stimulate her and when near climax, bring her down and repeat the process over and over to release tension and for ultimate pleasure.

Just like many other top cities, London is a major player on the massage scene. The history of massage therapies in London dates back as far as the 18th century and gradually other forms of massages came into view including the yoni massage. In this present day, yoni or yonic massage is one of the most sought after forms of tantric massages in London. To better understand its benefits and significance in London, it is highly important to know more about the yoni massage.

A yoni massage for many women is the whole tantric experience, it is not separate but another form which is part of the whole tantric massage. According to Tantric Therapy UK, a yoni massage cannot be separated from the tantric massage and it is the whole experience – a progressive journey through your whole sexual body and different stages of sexual energy. The yoni massage is a very ‘delicate’ massage which needs to be taken carefully and gently. Many women take this massage for different reasons and it is important to know these reasons but first of all, we should take a peak into details of the massage process.

According to Mind Body Green, there are five techniques for the yoni massage; circling, pushing and pulling, tugging and rolling, tapping and G-spot massage. In circling, the tip of the clitoris is circled with the fingers to stimulate arousal, varying from smaller circles to larger ones. In pushing and rolling, push down on the clitoris and make small push and pull strokes, and then slide your finger down the shaft of the clitoris. Do this on both sides of the shaft, keeping in mind that some women are more sensitive on one part of the clitoris than another. In tugging and rolling, the clitoris is pulled gently away from the body by grasping at the sides and tugging back and forth. You can also move lower and tug the sides of the lips. Keep varying strokes from the top of the clitoris to down to the lips. To roll the clitoris, start by holding it firmly and rolling between the thumb and the index finger—kind of like you’re making a tiny violin motion with your fingers.

In tapping, one or more fingers is used to tap the clitoris in varying rhythms from fast to slow to learn what the body responds to most. And in the G-spot massage, curve your first two fingers like the letter C and slide them into the vagina. Feel for a soft, spongy piece of skin behind the clitoris. You can massage it by making a come hither movement with your curved fingers. Vary between fast and slow strokes. You can also tickle the clit simultaneously at the tip, or place pressure on or above the pubic bone. Other techniques are also employed especially sliding and rubbing bodies but it is important to know that these techniques should be mixed up for a better experience.

The general belief is that the yoni or yonic massage is taken for sexual pleasure and to relieve sexual tension but contrary to this belief, the scope is wider. Although, yoni massages focus more on multiple orgasms and relieve of sexual tension, they also boost emotional, and physical health. Getting the perfect experience out of anything we do is very important and this equally applies to the yoni massage. There are several ways to improve the yoni massage experience and some of them include: relaxation and concentration, proper oiling and lubrication, communication and proper engagement of the clitoris.

In conclusion, back to the London scene, the tantric and yoni massage sectors are notably expanding. The benefits and professionalism makes the yoni massage highly sought after in London. In this present day, there are several locations scattered all over where one will not regret getting a yoni massage from. Some of these locations include: The Tantric Studio in St John’s Wood area, just north of Baker St, North London, Massage Her, London, Joy Tantric Massage London, Diamond Tantric Massages and PEARL London. They are equally mobile massage therapies all over who can give yoni massages. The price varies and it is mostly in the range of £50 – £300 depending on location, technique and duration.

Get a real lesbian yoni massage in London here: www.thelesbianspa.com

I’m new to Victoria BC and offer massages to people. I was searching around the net and realised that there isn’t many place for people in Victoria to find sensual massage? You hear so many horror stories about Backpage & Craigslist that it made me wonder where do people look if they want a relaxed but honest and sometimes erotic massage. I had a look around and the best places to find people who are genuine and reliable are from escort and massage forums… The people in the forums review the females that may advertise on Backpage & Craigslist and tell their experience about what they were like. I’m not sure how many massage therapist would be happy to hear they are being talked about in these forums, but I guess I would want to read reviews and check out what I’m getting myself into if I ever wanted to try out a service like this. 

Other than that there seems to be Thai or general massage places and parlors that offer a massage… but some also seem to offer extras… the way I have read about it seems a bit clinical and isn’t it on a table? Haha I do massage on a bed only. I like to move about sorry! 

You can also check out the local papers and see if there are any adverts that get your sensual massage senses going. If someone is describing their appearance, and describing an alternative massage from the norm then maybe you can take a chance and give them ago.  

What about you? Do you know where are good places to search and look to find a nice sensual massage in Victoria? Let me know if you do. 

Stay bliss and good luck searching. 

Are you looking for a sensual massage in Victoria B.C, that can assist in healing your mental and physical scars? Or maybe you are just curious about tantric massages such as yoni, lingam, or sensual massage. There is lots of information about sexual healing, sexological bodywork, sacred intimacy, or erotic energy work on the internet, but how does that translate into you finding the right practitioner for you? 

Tantric healer if for males and females and is hands on. It involves sexual energy and can quickly get to the root of deep-seated issues that often take years to resolve if using methods such as counselling. Effects can sometimes be dramatic, and positive in a persons life, other times it can take a few sessions.

This kind of hands-on, experiential work, often involving sexual energy and/or intimate touch, can quickly get to the root of deep-seated issues that often take years to resolve with other methods such as counseling or medical treatment. Tantric healing can have a dramatic, positive effect in a person’s life when undertaken by a well-trained, gifted practitioner.

So how do you find the right Tantric healer for you? 

• The best place to start is with yourself. What are you truly looking to heal, connect, rediscover, ect? I will post a list of questions to ask yourself to get a deeper understanding of what you are searching for in my next blog. 
• The next step is to ask yourself what you need to and look for in a person for them to create a safe environment for you to heal, learn, and grow. Where are they located, what kind of place do they practice in, do you feel a connection with them when you speak to them? Are you able to discuss your boundaries and vulnerabilities with them? 
• It is also good to know and understand all the terms surrounding sensual massages and tantric healing. I will discuss terms and meanings in a future blog. 
• Word of mouth… You may or may not be close enough to your friends to get a personal recommendation for a sensual experience, but there are a lot of professionals around that now embrace and see the benefits of tantric massage and other bodywork. You can ask for a referral from a counselor, psychologist, or an open-minded doctor. 
• Search engines – You can sometimes get lucky and find a good therapist by using Backpage and Craigslist… but it is often hit and miss. I often advertise on these sites and hear horror stories of who they have met in the past. A good idea is to search the following terms followed by the city you are in. Tantric healing, Tantric massage, Lingam massage, Yoni massage 

These are a few things that will help you on your way. Good luck and say hi if you are in Victoria B.C maybe we will have a healing tantric massage sometime. 

It seems to some people’s surprise that yes older women still want to enjoy sex and sensual experiences. I have had a few older women come to me for a sensual massage. We don’t stop feeling just because another birthday has passed by. 

“Portuguese decision to cut 50-year-old woman’s compensation over botched gynaecological surgery was ‘prejudiced’, say Lisbon judges.”

“Judges in Portugal were guilty of sexual discrimination in a medical compensation case when they decided that the importance of sex diminished with the age of a woman, Europe’s human rights court has ruled.”

I’m glad the case was resolved and hopefully more women in general do not have to justify wanting sensual experience regardless of their age.

All ages, genders, and sexualities are welcome to come for a sensual massage. I don’t need a judge to let me know what is important to women.  

Let’s meet and talk about your sexuality if you are based in Victoria B.C