What happens if you get a bit too happy in a massage? I suggest not to worry about it too much. Massage therapist are normally used to it occasionally appearing in endings. When muscles are stimulated, relaxed, and are receiving pleasurable sensation, then a person can become excited/happy in the ending or even during the middle of the session. It is quite common, so don’t try to avoid it and just try to enjoy and relax with the massage. The therapist will respect your boundaries the same way they will expect you to respect hers. Just remember there is nothing wrong with feeling nurtured and euphoric in your body. Maybe pamper yourself to getting a happy massage that is sensual and pleasurable so that you embrace your happy feelings. 

I am based in Victoria BC if you want to find a therapist that won’t be too shy about your happy experience and ending. 

How to give a sensual couples massage is a common question. Couples can see someone like myself and experience hands on guidance while I am in Victoria B.C but that is not helpful for people that can’t find a sensual massage guide. However, I say that couples should definitely act on their curiosity and try some techniques to really help them connect and bond with one another. 

Touching

The best way to give a sensual massage is to keep touches gentle and light. The skin is covered in sensitive nerve endings that respond to light touch. Partners can really start to feel aroused and enjoy the massage from light touches. You can direct your touches to the clitoris, thighs, buttocks, and breasts when massaging a female. The same is the same for men except a partner will concentrate on the penile erogenous zones instead of the clitoris. 

Lingam

Lingam massage is the tantric version of sensual massage that is given to males. Lingam is the Sanskirt work for male sex organ. The lingam massage is to help relax the man by massaging the prostate, the penis, and the testicles. The intention is not to give the male an orgasm but that can be a pleasant side effect. 

The guy can lay on his back with a pillow under his head and under his hips. His legs can be spread and slightly bent. The guy is encouraged to do deep breathing while the partner gently rubs the entire body, from the chest and arms to the legs and thigh. It is important to remind the guy to keep breathing deeply and to be relaxed while his sexual organs are rubbed. The speed and pressure can be changed while rubbing the oil all over the entire pelvic area. 

Yoni

Yoni is the tantric version of sensual massage that is given to females. Yoni is the Sanskirt word for vagina. The Yoni massage is meant to instill respect and love. A Yoni massage can help women relax and serve as an alternative safe sex technique. The aim of the Yoni sensual massage is to help the female relax and give pleasure. 

The female can lie on her back with pillows behind her head. She should be at an angle where she is able to watch her partner massage her genitals. another pillow is placed under her hips. It is important that both the female and the partner practice deep breathing throughout the massage. The partner should then gently rub the females whole body, and then pour a small amount of oil on the vaginal area and gently rub all around the inside area of the vagina. 

It is best if partner don’t talk to much during the massage so that they can focus on the massage and sensations. 

Don’t have a partner or want a professional to help you with the sensual couples massage? Come see me in Victoria B.C to experience these techniques.