We always use oil when giving each other a massage. It doesn’t always lead to sex or masturbation. It can though. It all depends on what we’re in the mood for. I know my man likes to get turned on. Just fooling around sometimes is enough for him. Though, he’s the type of guy who can fuck even when he’s dead tired. I try not to lead him on too much. The results are never good. I always hear him beating off in the bathroom if I grind his gears too much.

We don’t have a fancy massage table or anything like that. We just use our bed. The key thing to remember is to not use too much oil. Remember, any excess oil will get on the bed. If you’re new to this, then you’re probably going to want to put down a few towels. You may also consider buying a few bed sheets at your local thrift store. You can buy something that’s cheap and can be thrown away. It won’t be so messy after you get the hang of it.

Should you use lotion or oil? This is really the million-dollar question. The lotion is much less messy. Nothing feels better than an oil massage. You should try to learn how to use oil. If it’s too much of a hassle, then just use lotion. Doing it with some sort of lubricant will be better than none at all. Keep in mind that you’re not trying to make everything greasy. You’re just trying to make everything you touch slippery. That’s it really.

How much time you spend on the pleasure zones is up to you. It all depends on what you want the final result to be. If you’re wanting to have sex afterward, then spend plenty of time on them. Neither of you is going to want to bring the other to orgasm. You should focus on arousal. This is the most important aspect of the massage. You’re trying to get your partner’s blood flowing. If you can successfully do this, then the sex will be great.

Keep in mind your partner’s penis or vagina will have oil on it. You may want to skip putting lotion or oil down there. You do if there are plans for oral sex later. Never forget that you’re going to be putting your face down there. That won’t be so much fun if it’s drenched in oil.

The first few times you give a full body sensual massage it may feel awkward. It’s that way for everyone. That’s not a reason to give it up. Instead, get yourself familiar with your partner’s body. Know where they like to be touched. You’ll soon develop a mental map of all the right places to massage. This will make it easier in the future. Everyone has sensitive areas on their body that may feel uncomfortable when massaged. It’s up to you to learn where those areas are on your partner’s body.

Links:

Try a full body sensual massage from Nicole – https://www.blissonbliss.com/full-body-sensual-massage-london

or get some guidance on how to give each other a couples massage here: https://www.blissonbliss.com/sensual-couples-massage

How do you begin giving a sensual massage? You start by putting some oil on your hands. You should invest in a bottle of massage oil. Don’t worry if you can’t make it to the store. You can use lotion. If you don’t have either of the two, then don’t sweat it. You can give a massage without it. A massage with some sort of lubricant feels better than without it. But, sometimes you have to make due with what you have.

Where should you start when sensually massaging your partner? Start out with their feet and work your way up. Make sure they’re laying on their back when you begin. You should also set the tone with some music. Candles are a nice touch also. You want to make the atmosphere as relaxing as possible. You may even think about burning a stick of incense. You should do anything and everything to ensure that your partner is as calm as possible before and during the massage.

Work your way up from their feet. You can focus on their pleasure zones. It’s best to wait until you flip them over. This isn’t to say that you can’t give their ass a good rub down. You know your partner better than anyone else. If they’re not ready for a little satisfaction in between the legs, don’t push it. You can do it when their on their back. This is the most appropriate time to do it.

Your partner doesn’t expect you to be a professional. Don’t feel any sort of pressure to deliver in that regards. There’s no reason why you can’t watch a few YouTube videos and learn how to give a massage. There’s plenty to choose from. The most important thing is to be creative. Always seek out new places to touch. You’re going to want to pay close attention to how your partner reacts when touched in these new areas.

How sensual you are with your partner depends on them. You need to be able to read your partner. This is especially true for guys. Knowing how far you can take things is extremely important. You don’t want to seem too pushy when offering up a massage to your partner. Guys are always in the mood for sex. If you’re massaging your man, don’t be afraid about being too over the top. They’ll love the fact you’re trying to turn them on. Tease your man during a massage if you want to treat him later with sex. He’ll enjoy the build up of arousal before experiencing the ultimate satisfaction.