There is no guy on this planet who would not dream of a sensual massage. Knowledge of his erogenous points and their proper stimulation will open his heart wide. What’s more, joint screenings will bring you closer together. And they are a brilliant introduction to sex! First, a handful of tips:
- Create an atmosphere
Kind of obvious and often forgotten. Nothing puts you in the mood like dim light, a few lit (fragranced) candles and a pleasant aroma (essential oil). - Turn on the music
It can be relaxing, club music, chillout, jazz or just a playlist with romantic music for sex. - Reach for massage oil
You can buy it ready . There are a whole bunch of edible, flavoring oils on the market that you just need to take out of the cabinet when the atmosphere gets hot. You can also make your own. How? Combine 2 tablespoons of grapeseed oil with 4 drops of any essential oil. For relaxation, it can be lavender, which is even suitable for sensitive skin. For stimulation, try rose, which will immediately take you to the Turkish spa. - Warm it up
The spell breaks when you touch the warm skin of a guy … with a cold hand with ice-cold oil. Before you start the massage, take a small amount of liniment, warm up in your hands, and then put them on your partner’s skin for a while. - Practice pressure
If you know each other like bald horses, you can skip this point. If you’re just experimenting, try different pressure forces and make sure he’s okay. You don’t want him to howl in pain. - Slow and gentle
Let these be your keywords. Begin with long, gentle movements on your back using your whole hands. Let all his muscles warm up. Take your time, because short, quick, nervous pats will only annoy him and the guy will beg for mercy. Let him beg but for other reasons …
