Lingam Massage functions

A few people know how to make a Lingam massage. During the massage, attention is paid not only to the genitals but also to the perineum, testicles and other parts of the body. The man must learn to completely relax and accept the feeling. Lingam massage at home is not only a pleasant experience but also the opportunity to develop with softness and feel. A man can completely and completely sink into a state of relaxation and enjoy great pleasure.

Preparation for lingam massage

Before performing the Lingam massage, you must try to achieve complete relaxation and peace. Deep breathing technique, warm bath, ordinary shower. In general, you need to get rid of junk information, forget about stress. We must completely withdraw from the problems, connect with the views of the partner, accidental touches, caresses and so on.

When he is completely ready and relaxed, you work from his groins, after that, you must be ended up, to his penis. 

Techniques to be followed in lingam massage:

Technique 1: In the first technique, You start with the bottom of the penis shaft. You use both thumbs. And then you make long strips from the bottom of his penis to the top of his penis. First with left then with the right. The large swelling bodies are located here. You can also slide your flat hand on the back of its shaft. Alternate these two for extra pleasure. 

Technique 2: This only revolves around its cap. One of the most sensitive parts of his penis is the frenulum. This is the piece of skin just at the bottom of his glans. You can massage this with your thumb very gently and with a lot of lubricants. So this is the second technique and an effective one too.

Technique 3: In the third technique, You use both hands and place them on top of the shaft of his penis. Both your hands are completely around his penis. Then you make a circular motion in the opposite direction between your two hands. Suppose the right one makes right-turning movements then the left one makes left-turning movements. 

Technique 4: The same place where you just made a circular motion with your hands, now hold your hands in the same position but make up and down movements. Use a lot of massage oil so that it glides well. Of course, you can also do the same with 1 hand.

Technique 5: You hold the bottom of his shaft with one hand in the fifth technique. On the other hand, you have to put your hand around the bottom of his glans and you pull it off with a circular motion. 

Technique 6: This is the most well-known movement of a pulling turn, the pulling movement up and down. The latter is fun. This causes him to go towards his ejaculation. But you are not supposed to let him come. You build up the tension to around 80% so that it is almost ready to come, but then you take it slower and the tension drops to around 30% again. Then you start again. You can do this several times so that his orgasm becomes extremely intense. Probably one he has never experienced before. 

Your partner and you must let go of all expectations:

Yes, chances are there, if you satisfy your husband in the above way, he can’t wait to have sex with you. 

But that is not the intention with a tantra massage. 

With a tantra massage, you have no expectations of each other.

One undergoes the massage and the other does the work. These roles can turn again next time.

So at tantra, it’s all about giving and taking. You are the giver right now and your husband is the taker. If He lets go of all expectations and can fully focus on himself. If that is the case, this experience will be much stronger for him and he will be able to experience a mind-blowing orgasm. 

Through this experience, you will know exactly which parts of his body and penis are sensitive. Perhaps areas that he himself did not even know are sensitive. 

Tantra does not end with penetration:

Not having expectations is one thing, but not having sex is another thing. 

And that thing is especially difficult for most men.

Once you do not have to put your head between your legs, it is not necessarily difficult. But the desire to penetrate you is much greater. 

But with a tantra massage that is not the intention. Otherwise, the man probably keeps in mind that he will soon have to go back to work so that he will not be able to surrender completely. 

The same applies when you turn around the roles and you lie there to be massaged. Then it does not end with sex and you can fully surrender, knowing that nothing will be expected of you in the future. 

If you choose to switch to sex, that is your own responsibility. But do you realize that once that happens the chance is quite high that it always happens? 

Repetition is the key to success:

We can understand that it is exciting to do this the first time. There are probably all supposed to go through your head like:

“Does he think I’m crazy because we’re sitting here opposite each other giving compliments?”

“Does he like it when I touch his nipples?”

“Do I implement this technique correctly?”

And of course, I can continue for a while. But of course, you are not the only one who has this. Even when you lie there, he himself will come up with such questions. 

But the fact is, the more you do it, the better you know what he likes.

And that is precisely the beauty of a tantra massage. You get to know every spot of your husband that turns him on and makes him relax. In addition, you will naturally get better with your massage techniques by practicing. 

When the roles are reversed, you will probably be amazed at certain spots that he touches in you that you did not know were so sensitive. 

What happens if you get a bit too happy in a massage? I suggest not to worry about it too much. Massage therapist are normally used to it occasionally appearing in endings. When muscles are stimulated, relaxed, and are receiving pleasurable sensation, then a person can become excited/happy in the ending or even during the middle of the session. It is quite common, so don’t try to avoid it and just try to enjoy and relax with the massage. The therapist will respect your boundaries the same way they will expect you to respect hers. Just remember there is nothing wrong with feeling nurtured and euphoric in your body. Maybe pamper yourself to getting a happy massage that is sensual and pleasurable so that you embrace your happy feelings. 

I am based in Victoria BC if you want to find a therapist that won’t be too shy about your happy experience and ending. 

Are you looking for a sensual massage in Victoria B.C, that can assist in healing your mental and physical scars? Or maybe you are just curious about tantric massages such as yoni, lingam, or sensual massage. There is lots of information about sexual healing, sexological bodywork, sacred intimacy, or erotic energy work on the internet, but how does that translate into you finding the right practitioner for you? 

Tantric healer if for males and females and is hands on. It involves sexual energy and can quickly get to the root of deep-seated issues that often take years to resolve if using methods such as counselling. Effects can sometimes be dramatic, and positive in a persons life, other times it can take a few sessions.

This kind of hands-on, experiential work, often involving sexual energy and/or intimate touch, can quickly get to the root of deep-seated issues that often take years to resolve with other methods such as counseling or medical treatment. Tantric healing can have a dramatic, positive effect in a person’s life when undertaken by a well-trained, gifted practitioner.

So how do you find the right Tantric healer for you? 

• The best place to start is with yourself. What are you truly looking to heal, connect, rediscover, ect? I will post a list of questions to ask yourself to get a deeper understanding of what you are searching for in my next blog. 
• The next step is to ask yourself what you need to and look for in a person for them to create a safe environment for you to heal, learn, and grow. Where are they located, what kind of place do they practice in, do you feel a connection with them when you speak to them? Are you able to discuss your boundaries and vulnerabilities with them? 
• It is also good to know and understand all the terms surrounding sensual massages and tantric healing. I will discuss terms and meanings in a future blog. 
• Word of mouth… You may or may not be close enough to your friends to get a personal recommendation for a sensual experience, but there are a lot of professionals around that now embrace and see the benefits of tantric massage and other bodywork. You can ask for a referral from a counselor, psychologist, or an open-minded doctor. 
• Search engines – You can sometimes get lucky and find a good therapist by using Backpage and Craigslist… but it is often hit and miss. I often advertise on these sites and hear horror stories of who they have met in the past. A good idea is to search the following terms followed by the city you are in. Tantric healing, Tantric massage, Lingam massage, Yoni massage 

These are a few things that will help you on your way. Good luck and say hi if you are in Victoria B.C maybe we will have a healing tantric massage sometime. 

How to give a sensual couples massage is a common question. Couples can see someone like myself and experience hands on guidance while I am in Victoria B.C but that is not helpful for people that can’t find a sensual massage guide. However, I say that couples should definitely act on their curiosity and try some techniques to really help them connect and bond with one another. 

Touching

The best way to give a sensual massage is to keep touches gentle and light. The skin is covered in sensitive nerve endings that respond to light touch. Partners can really start to feel aroused and enjoy the massage from light touches. You can direct your touches to the clitoris, thighs, buttocks, and breasts when massaging a female. The same is the same for men except a partner will concentrate on the penile erogenous zones instead of the clitoris. 

Lingam

Lingam massage is the tantric version of sensual massage that is given to males. Lingam is the Sanskirt work for male sex organ. The lingam massage is to help relax the man by massaging the prostate, the penis, and the testicles. The intention is not to give the male an orgasm but that can be a pleasant side effect. 

The guy can lay on his back with a pillow under his head and under his hips. His legs can be spread and slightly bent. The guy is encouraged to do deep breathing while the partner gently rubs the entire body, from the chest and arms to the legs and thigh. It is important to remind the guy to keep breathing deeply and to be relaxed while his sexual organs are rubbed. The speed and pressure can be changed while rubbing the oil all over the entire pelvic area. 

Yoni

Yoni is the tantric version of sensual massage that is given to females. Yoni is the Sanskirt word for vagina. The Yoni massage is meant to instill respect and love. A Yoni massage can help women relax and serve as an alternative safe sex technique. The aim of the Yoni sensual massage is to help the female relax and give pleasure. 

The female can lie on her back with pillows behind her head. She should be at an angle where she is able to watch her partner massage her genitals. another pillow is placed under her hips. It is important that both the female and the partner practice deep breathing throughout the massage. The partner should then gently rub the females whole body, and then pour a small amount of oil on the vaginal area and gently rub all around the inside area of the vagina. 

It is best if partner don’t talk to much during the massage so that they can focus on the massage and sensations. 

Don’t have a partner or want a professional to help you with the sensual couples massage? Come see me in Victoria B.C to experience these techniques. 

It seems to some people’s surprise that yes older women still want to enjoy sex and sensual experiences. I have had a few older women come to me for a sensual massage. We don’t stop feeling just because another birthday has passed by. 

“Portuguese decision to cut 50-year-old woman’s compensation over botched gynaecological surgery was ‘prejudiced’, say Lisbon judges.”

“Judges in Portugal were guilty of sexual discrimination in a medical compensation case when they decided that the importance of sex diminished with the age of a woman, Europe’s human rights court has ruled.”

I’m glad the case was resolved and hopefully more women in general do not have to justify wanting sensual experience regardless of their age.

All ages, genders, and sexualities are welcome to come for a sensual massage. I don’t need a judge to let me know what is important to women.  

Let’s meet and talk about your sexuality if you are based in Victoria B.C

Detox & Massage

I have worked with people going through addiction and detox rehab in the past and have found that massage and physical touch can assist in recovery. 

It is important that Physical, psychological, and emotional components must be covered in order to encourage a successful recovery. Massage is therefore a relaxing and calming treatment option to assist people who are going through treatment or detox rehab. 

“Addiction changes brain chemistry. Normally, your brain produces a chemical called dopamine. Dopamine is a key to pleasure. It is used by your brain to encourage you to continue to do something that is required for survival. Eating and sex are two activities that naturally trigger large dopamine releases in our brains. When dopamine is released we feel good so we want to continue to do that thing so we can continue to feel good.

Addictive behaviors trigger a release of dopamine. This release is much higher than what the body can do naturally. Because of the high amount of dopamine produced by the drug you are driven more and more to repeat that behavior. Overt time you become dependent on the drug to release dopamine. When you’re going through the withdrawal process your dopamine levels are lower than the average person.

Massage helps increase the levels of dopamine in the brain. When given consistently over an extended period of time it causes dopamine levels to increase steadily. It can be used to help normalize the production of dopamine in a person going through the withdrawal process.

Massage also decreases stress. Recovering from an addiction puts the body through a tremendous amount of stress. Massage decreases the production of the stress hormone cortisol in the body. It also triggers the parasympathetic nervous system which helps slow breathing and heart rate relaxing the body.

Detoxification is an important part of addiction recovery. The remaining drugs in your body must be pushed out to give you a chance of full recovery. Massage also helps with detoxification by increasing the circulation of blood and lymph. This helps the body flush out the toxic chemicals left over from drug abuse more quickly.

Massage on its own cannot help someone completely recover from addiction, but combined with the right other therapies, it can make the recovery process easier

Massage Therapy offers an abundance of additional benefits including:

• Decrease physical muscle pain
• Ease medication dependency
• Increase joint flexibility /circulation  
• Promote tissue regeneration
• Reduce muscle spasm/cramping
• Enhance sleep quality
• Improve energy”

Quote “detox” to get $30 off your next session if you feel a massage from me would benefit you.