It is safe to say that most people are familiar with what massages or massage therapies mean. Massages basically mean using hands, equipment and other body parts to knead and rub muscles around the body in order to either ease one form of pain or the other or relief stress and tension. The term ‘massage’ is extremely broad with a really wide scope. It comprises of several forms and types of massages, one of which is the Full Body Sensual Massage (FBSM). To better understand what the full body sensual massage is all about, one must first know what the sensual massage is.
The sensual massage according to Wikipedia is the use of massage techniques by a person on another person’s erogenous zones to achieve or enhance their sexual excitation or arousal and to achieve orgasm. Sensual massages have roots also in happy ending massages. The full body sensual massage however is a little bit above this. The full body sensual massage is somewhat total and more erotic kind of. According to kinkly, a full body sensual massage is a massage that is given to enhance a person’s sexual excitement. It covers the entire body, with the man’s genitalia and the woman’s breasts and vagina as focal points. The scope of this practice is not limited to massage and massage therapies alone, it can be referred to as mutual masturbation when performed by sexual partners. It can be part of foreplay, after-sex play, and sex therapy.
It is a way for many to not only relief sexual tension, achieve orgasm but also exploit their sexuality better. Many at times, the full body sensual massage (FBSM) is misunderstood and mixed up with certain practices such as prostitution which makes it illegal in many countries but when it is doing the right way, using the right methods and techniques, it is completely safe and healthy. Sensual massages also known as erotic massages are always sexual in nature, therefore they are meant to be experienced with open minds. Just as they are sexually fulfilling, they could also be emotionally and psychologically fulfilling.
According to WINKS London, in getting the best out of a sensual massage of any kind, it is important to prepare one’s chakras and separate them into the heart, root and sacral chakras. All these are done to open up the aspects of love, intimacy an passion to make the experience memorable. Furthermore, in achieving the perfect FBSM, there are certain steps that need to be taken. Some are outlined below:
● Setting the room and mood is important. Candle lights are advisable with slow music if your partner or client likes it. Use colourful sheets too if they are needed and make sure there is a lot of space.
● Letting go of all inhibitions and insecurities is important to get the best out of this experience also. Be confident and let go of all forms of fear and nervousness.
● Massage oil is extremely important. According to LiveStrong, this will allow you to sweep over your partner without any uncomfortable friction. Consider using scented oil for additional sensory stimulation.
● The massage proper and exploration of the body is perhaps key. Explore the body of your partner and client slowly using any massage stroke you both deem fit enough. Pay attention to all parts of the body. The arms, legs, neck should not be left out. Stimulate the genitals also for sexual satisfaction. The penis, testicles, vagina, clitoris, breasts and nipples should be stroked, massage and stimulated.
● While at it, listen and pay attention to their gestures, verbal cues and little little details here and there of physical enjoyments and ways to please them better. Communication is important.
● Be dynamic and mix things up, use equipment if both parties are comfortable and other body parts.
● While at it, one must be careful in order not to hurt or injure someone also. While it is easy to get carried away in the moment, one must be careful and not overdo things.
In conclusion, full body sensual massages are accepted in many societies around the world. Organizations have even sprung up with ties and connections to this practice. In this modern day, there are now massage parlours, resorts and even spas where services related to sensual and full body sensual massages are being offered. There are equally private agents, mobile therapists and others who give this kind of massage. Asides all these, this type of massage could also be done in the home among couples, partners and even friends. The reasons for FBSM are numerous. Sensual massages will not achieve sexual satisfaction, they equally build confidence, improve muscle and joint health, improve erection and prostate health, prevent anxiety and stress and strengthen relationships.
