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3.Tantric prostate massage
Many people do not know (not even many men) that only two thirds of the penis is outside the body. The other third part is hidden inside. This third part of the penis is only accessible through the anus (slightly from the perineum, but not to the same extent). I am sure that some of my male readers will be a little sad by listening to this, but all hope is not lost. As some of you may know, accessing the rest of the penis can be a very rewarding personal and sexual exploration.
As I said before, many men find it difficult to accept the concept of anal penetration. Even a visit to the proctologist can cause them to burst into hives and shake their cheeks in a preventive protest. But digital penetration at the service of the tantric prostate massage, with the exception of the external genitalia (for the most part), can cause some of the most powerful orgasms that men can experience. There is also the advantage that men have the ability to be sexually receptive. It is an act of trust that many people have never experienced and that can really change their outlook on the world and their perception of what it means to be a man. It can also attract them to a much more nuanced understanding of the experiences of women around the world and gender roles.
Some readers will have difficulty with this idea. They will think that they are not “gay”. We will now remove this objection. Being penetrated doesn’t make you gay. With this you can explore your sexuality in the most complete way. Regardless of their sexual identity, anal penetration or prostate massage is a sexual option that men should be able to explore freely without being bothered by social prohibitions, which means absolutely nothing in the big picture of things.
Hidden in the rectum of the male body is the reason. It’s the prostate. This small hill, about two centimeters long, is located on the front (recto) wall of the rectum, about four to five inches inside. Separated from the rectum by a thin membrane, it is thanks to the stimulation of this gland that men can experience a very different quality of orgasm. While the prostate is being stimulated, the part of the penis that is hidden in the man’s body also undergoes stimulation that it would not normally enjoy.
Those who remain resilient may want to think about this.
With adequate lubrication, it is possible to achieve a prostate massage or penetration of the anus with minimal discomfort, even if you are a beginner. But investigating the prostate massage is an act of trust towards another person that some men will find difficult, so it is extremely important that the partner on the side that gives the comparison is very aware of it. Creating an environment of total relaxation is the key to getting the comfort of the guest couple, especially if it is their first experience of penetration (outside the office of a proctologist).
But for men who feel uncomfortable with the prospect of penetration, the massage of the holy place is an alternative that can give comparable results. Massaging this area is also a preparation for those interested in continuing sexual continence (sperm retention, prolonged sexual intercourse), as part of a long-term experience of tantric sex. The deliberate massage of the prostate can be uncomfortable in the beginning, but it can also produce extremely pleasant sensations for the receiving couple, especially when the penis is massaging at the same time.
The receiving couple must be as comfortable and relaxed as possible. Anterior tantric massage with a soft and long-lasting massage on other parts of your body will help you achieve this. Use an oil with a pleasant aroma that creates a feeling of relaxation and ease. Lying on the back with a pillow under the hips, the receiving partner can see the partner giving at any time, creating a sense of connection as the massage progresses. Your legs are open and give you access to your sexual organs, which can be gently massaged, but not to an orgasm. This can happen during the lingam massage, but you don’t have to. The purpose here is to use the sensual massage method as a means to worship the receiving partner’s lingam, prostate and body. There must be no fear of failure at all, not at all. It’s about intimacy and connection, not orgasm.
You can massage the penis yourself by holding it just below the head, with one hand, rubbing the head up and down along the stem, with a gentle but stable rotational movement. When the penis is massaged, it will stand up and then soften. This process is repeated when you go to the scrotum by gently pulling and massaging and then returning to the lingam itself. Bringing the orgasm closer to will be a pleasant experience for him. If you repeat this experience multiple times, you create a relaxed feeling of being loved and cared for.
When the receiving partner is relaxed enough, finding the sacred site, prostate is as easy as locating the small part of the skin just below the scrotum and above the anus. Massaging this site can help the receiving couple postpone (or give up) ejaculation and participate in the fullness of the tantric practice. It is a small area (no larger than a standard pea). When it is found, the giving partner must gently push inside. The guy receiving will feel an unusual pressure in their body because this point is stimulated. While this technique is being used, the man who gets used to it gets used to the feeling of being massaged and feels not only comfortable with it, but also excited.
With one hand to massage the holy place and the other to massage the lingam, you keep the penis rising and softening. As you approach the ejaculation, gently press the holy place. You will notice that the male partner will experience something that he has never had in sex, if he has never had this type of massage before. Tantric massage is a deeply intimate and revealing experience for men who have never been massaged this way.
If the receiving partner is also willing to perform prostate massage, start slowly with a large amount of lubricant. This can be water-based, silicone or a hybrid of both. The soft penetration must be slow and not forced. The couple who establish the contact will discover that the finger is introduced into the rectum by reflex. There is no need to push. Once inside, the finger must move carefully and regularly during a massage movement. It should not be removed before the receiving partner has ejaculated or requested to do so (which is unlikely to be done with this method before ejaculation, as it is very pleasant and produces very powerful orgasms.) Unless you need more lubrication.
With this in mind, let’s find out more about the tantric lingam massage.
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