The prostate is one of the most important glands of the male body, sometimes it is called the “male point G”. It is located inside the pelvis. Massaging the prostate gives a strong, intense sensation, unfamiliar to most men. Regular massage of the prostate helps prevent its inflammation and it also prevents many diseases. It is also recommended for irregular sex life.
The procedure begins outside, with massage of the perineum, that is, the place under the testes. Massaging is performed in the direction of the anus, followed by direct prostate massage. Prerequisites – sensitivity and accuracy of the masseuse, the use of emollient oils or lubricants.
Prostate massage, unique in its effectiveness, awakens the energies of the first chakra, gives a feeling of bliss and inner satisfaction. Prostate massage can be ordered as an addition to classic tantra massage.
What are the uses of prostate massage?
- brings strong, intense feelings.
- helps to take a fresh look at sexuality.
- positively affects health (effective in the prevention of prostate cancer, erection problems caused by a swollen prostate, and in the treatment of hemorrhoids).
- directs the energies of the first chakra to achieve our goals and realize fantasies
Stimulation of the prostate has a healing effect, serves the prevention of prostate cancer, erection problems that are possible with the swelling of this organ, promotes deep physical and mental relaxation and helps to better understand and feel the role of the host in sex. Despite the indisputable positive effect on the male body, this procedure has not yet received wide distribution.
What is the taboo on this topic, how is prostate massage going, why is it difficult for a man to talk about him with a partner? Let’s try to figure it out.
Prostate massage – the process in detail:
The prostate massage begins on the outside, with massage of the perineum (in the direction from the testicles to the anus), continues with direct massage of the prostate through the anus with gentle massage oil or lubricant. During the internal massage, a thin latex glove is used for hygiene reasons. This procedure is preceded by a sensual massage of the whole body, which perfectly relaxes and serves as ideal preparation.
This massage helps to create an intimate, trusting atmosphere, eliminates doubts and false shame. The procedure should not be painful, it is performed slowly and carefully, first, the buttocks and anus are carefully prepared. Only when all the muscles in this part of the body are well stretched and relaxed, the direct prostate massage begins.
As a part of the Tantra Massage, the effect of exposure of hot lava stones on the buttocks, hips, and back is additionally used. The best pose for this massage is lying on your stomach, but you can massage the prostate in several approaches, including in a pose lying on your back (for example, in parallel with an intimate Lingam massage).
The uniqueness of this procedure is that the masseuse takes an active role, and you feel that you can forget about everything and completely surrender to the will of her hands. It is best to give your body complete freedom, do not be shy, do not control involuntary movements, sounds made, etc.
Prostate massage and taboo:
Some men are afraid that if they like prostate massage, it will mean their latent homosexuality. In fact, this is completely wrong. A man, as a rule, plays a dominant role in sex, and prostate massage gives him the opportunity to experience the opposite role. Sometimes a man needs a woman to enslave him and do what he wants with him. This is completely normal, every healthy person has a need to test himself in different roles!
Some men secretly dream of prostate massage but are embarrassed to ask their partner about it. This taboo has arisen because the anus is considered a dirty organ. Therefore, during this massage hygiene is very important (a latex glove is used), however, no special cleaning is required (if your intestines are working properly). Before the procedure, it is not recommended to eat food that enhances the release of gases. Another possible problem – the partner may not know how to massage the prostate. Therefore, it is better to conduct the first prostate massage in the life performed by an experienced masseuse, for example, as part of a tantra massage, and then explain to the partner how this is done. The main thing is not to be shy!
If the first time fails …
In life, it sometimes happens that we are not quite ready for something, and as a result, our impression is different from what was expected. After this, many do not risk repeating the attempt; the subconscious mind seeks to protect a person from further disappointments.
Prostate massage is a very delicate procedure, and the first impression of it may be different. Often all sorts of fears and taboos, conscious and unconscious, are to blame. Therefore, you need to learn how to properly take this massage.
Sometimes everything goes well right away, and sometimes it’s better not to rush, to approach the goal step by step as confidence builds between the masseuse and the client, which will ultimately help cast aside doubts and prejudices and prepare for new experiences. The result is a prostate massage will give you a strong, ecstatic feeling! This confirms the experience of many men who have already experienced it. Prostate massage will help you try on the role of the host, uncover the deeply hidden possibilities of your personality!